By: Mukelani Cele Life hardly ever pauses gently. It shatters your plans, upsets your expectations, and puts you in a place you never meant to be in. In one instance, you are following the same routine as everyone else, school, applications, and plans for the future, and in the next, you remain stagnant as life continues for those around you. Because we are conditioned to equate movement with success and pauses with failure, that stagnancy may be unsettling. However, that com